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Friendship is a term used to denote co-operative and supportive behaviour between two or more social entities. This article focuses on the notion specific to interpersonal relationships. In this sense, the term connotes a relationship which involves mutual knowledge, esteem and affection. Friends will welcome each other's company and exhibit loyalty towards each other, often to the point of altruism. They will also engage in mutually helping behavior, such as exchange of advice and the sharing of hardship. A friend is someone who may often demonstrate reciprocating and reflective behaviors. Yet for many, friendship is nothing more than the trust that someone or something will not harm them.
Value that is found in friendships is often the result of a friend demonstrating on a consistent basis:
- the tendency to desire what is best for each other.
- sympathy and empathy.
- honesty, perhaps in situations where it may be difficult for others to speak the truth.
- mutual understanding.
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Alright, it's true, I feel awful bad. People think I'm not good because of some people that moved to Spain and I can't see them. But the truth is if I feel so much bad it's because, first, it kills me people are living a dream I've always wanted : living and studying abroad. Then, because I must admit I'm kind of jealous since I spent like 2 months living with them, and now they're living together without me, but it don't seems to bother them, on the contrary. And finally, because I thought I had friends to whom I've told and shared things I've never tell before to anyone, but it means nothing to them. That might sounds gay, cliche or whatever but I assume that since it hurts, for real. I mean I used to play to the guy that makes jokes and laughs with everyone but I was probably the guy with the less level of assurance on earth, I was even scared to ask for some sauces at Mcdo.
Anyway, I met this guy and new people, become more confident for whatever reasons and decide it's cool to finally have people you can talk to. So I've started thinking people can actually worth something so you don't have to hide yourself anymore and can lay down your arms.
And then, these people aren't there for you anymore, but as you now know you can talk to people, you're not alone, so it doesn't really matter if they're gone.
Apparently, you can just take people, share things and when it's done, you move on. Well that was not my point of view and it hurts so much I guess because I really didn't expect a such issue.
I'm not saying you have to speak or even love people for the rest of your life once you've spend some time with them, but just if you like it well then you do everything you can so that can continue, at least you can pretend to do something.
But giving up seems to be so easy...
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So, here I am, a whole new me. I would not say it's a better me, but it's a different me which is not bad at all. I've lost lots of things from friends to weight (15kg), and gain other things from money to sexiness. My parents move to Reunion island in 6 days which makes me the only one living in my big house, so that's rock'n roll.
And talking about that, I've been visiting Sijeka in London like 3 weeks ago and that was really cool (minou I miss ya), she has definitely gained a million of rock'n roll points living in London and eating at Wagamama.
Anyway, life goes by...
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